Tuesday, July 28, 2009

The hosptial hurldle...











We successfully navigated the hospital visit today (necessary for Ivy's VISA), despite some language barriers along the way. Our cab driver dropped us off at the wrong part of the huge hospital complex... and that stumped us for a bit, until a very kind (and thank God, English speaking) man came to our rescue. The hospital visit consisted of a few examinations and some shots. I had read on another family's blog that the shots were harder on Mama than they were on the kid... totally true. I had to pass her off to Brian because I didn't want my energy to upset her. She was a trooper, as usual and went to sleep soon after it was over. We enjoyed a beautiful taxi ride through the city on the way back to our lodging and plotted a walk to a nearby cafe for lunch.




After lunch, though, poor little Ivy seemed to wake up to the fact that she'd had some shots, and started to fret. It was a long afternoon of us taking turns comforting her, until she finally conked out about 45 minutes ago. It made us so sad to see her sad little face, and hear her sad little (sometimes big !!!) whimper. We're hoping that the memory of the shots fade into her dreams and that tomorow is more enjoyable for her.




At the same time, though, I enjoyed comforting her, rocking her fragile body until I felt her grow heavy with sleep. It was a nice afternoon of reading, and listening to the Ivy playlist on the Ipod speakers.




Tomorow is the interview with the officer at the embassy, and hopefully we will pick up the visa later in the afternoon. It will be another long day for Ivy, but an important one. It seems like our process with her has been a series of goals to attain, submitting our paperwork, our album arriving in Japan, getting news of our match, waiting for travel, waiting for placement, waiting for embassy approval... etc. the next goal after we get home will be to wait for our court date and for the adoption to become final. I guess life is full of those goals, though, for all of us. They won't stop when she becomes ours officially in the eyes of the law... we are dreaming up all kinds of goals for her every day now, as we make plans for her future. Will she play soccer? Where will she go to school?(Brian says Stanford...) What kind of a musical instrument will she learn, the piano with those graceful fingers?




So the only pictures I have for today are us in our outfits for the hospital visit, one rare quiet moment this afternoon when she wore herself out.... and an attempt of night photography with my unsophisticated camera with the aid of a tripod.




Sleep well, friends in the other time zones...




3 comments:

  1. Most definitely harder on the Mom's - I'm sure Taz would attest that I cried MUCH more than precious Sakura for our hospital visit, I was crying even before she got her shot, and then quite a while afterwards! I still hate the every two month medical appts, get ready for that - shots are given at each visit :o( NO fun!

    Glad to hear that you were able to settle and calm poor little Ivy down and that she is sleeping peacefully, they really are troopers!

    Not long now and you'll be all 'done' in Tokyo and starting your lives back home! Enjoy your last few days together in the beautiful city.

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  2. One more appointment and then you are all clear! Congrats!! Your skirt is cute in your picture!

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  3. HI Margaret. I got here. Ivy will be MUCH happier tomorrow. Love all your pictures. You are like us. We LOVE Tokyo. We went everywhere--Disney twice, all the neighborhoods in Tokyo, Tokyo Dome, Shinagawa, Ginza, etc. I miss Midtown. It is so great there. You are bringing back such great memories, but none as wonderful as meeting and bonding with your child in his/her birth country.

    Yes, many goals and things to look forward to.

    Enjoy your last few days in Tokyo, good luck tomorrow, and safe travels home.

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